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mommyof2 · 01-15-2008, 10:06 AM

To answer your question he was not like this when I met him it was after moving in together and getting married where things did a 360. The only thing I can think of is he didn't let me see the real side of him until later on. The last 4 months things got even worse than it ever was before. But I can't honestly say if this is what would be causing it or the fact of his serious weight gain from being addicted to games and not wanting to do anything but his games.

bipolar sounds about right from what I have read online and stories of others who has someone at home with it. Some people go through a freak show all the time their words not mine. If I bring it up and ask him to go see a doctor to find out what's wrong I'm not going to get anywhere. I know already he will refuse but I can at least try. A lady I read about said she kept logs on her husbands behavior then approached him and after he calmed down she got him to sit and talk with her and was showing him his behavior and changes that has been going on with him. Sense he has been on medication it's made a big difference.

I have read online others who live with someone addicted to games it can consume their entire life. They have no desire to do anything but the game they are playing. That sounds more like him from being on it day in and day out. Eating at his computer to staying up for hours to sleeping for hours it's like they lose touch with reality. Unfortunately some people stay and stick it out hoping the person will change and sometimes they do. But I don't want to be one of the girls who's been with someone for years and that's all they do.

But if it is bipolar once I leave because I am leaving him I have done made up my mind about that he might start seeing what's going on with him that he seems to be in this big denial over. I have done been pushed as far and I'm going to go. This is to much stress and I don't have the want or energy right now to slave after a person. That's what I pretty much do here if I don't do it nothing gets done. The further along I get the more aggravated I become. Thanks to all for your comments but I learned along time ago you can't help a person if they aren't willing to help themselves.

01-15-2008, 10:06 AM	#5 (permalink)
mommyof2 Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Ohio Posts: 2	Re: I'm pregnant and my husband treats me like crap To answer your question he was not like this when I met him it was after moving in together and getting married where things did a 360. The only thing I can think of is he didn't let me see the real side of him until later on. The last 4 months things got even worse than it ever was before. But I can't honestly say if this is what would be causing it or the fact of his serious weight gain from being addicted to games and not wanting to do anything but his games. bipolar sounds about right from what I have read online and stories of others who has someone at home with it. Some people go through a freak show all the time their words not mine. If I bring it up and ask him to go see a doctor to find out what's wrong I'm not going to get anywhere. I know already he will refuse but I can at least try. A lady I read about said she kept logs on her husbands behavior then approached him and after he calmed down she got him to sit and talk with her and was showing him his behavior and changes that has been going on with him. Sense he has been on medication it's made a big difference. I have read online others who live with someone addicted to games it can consume their entire life. They have no desire to do anything but the game they are playing. That sounds more like him from being on it day in and day out. Eating at his computer to staying up for hours to sleeping for hours it's like they lose touch with reality. Unfortunately some people stay and stick it out hoping the person will change and sometimes they do. But I don't want to be one of the girls who's been with someone for years and that's all they do. But if it is bipolar once I leave because I am leaving him I have done made up my mind about that he might start seeing what's going on with him that he seems to be in this big denial over. I have done been pushed as far and I'm going to go. This is to much stress and I don't have the want or energy right now to slave after a person. That's what I pretty much do here if I don't do it nothing gets done. The further along I get the more aggravated I become. Thanks to all for your comments but I learned along time ago you can't help a person if they aren't willing to help themselves.