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Originally Posted by Snowqueen
We are going to go to counseling, and I've realized that the emotional abuse was a major part of the problem. How can you love someone that makes you feel bad about yourself? .
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Good question as I see many people ask it.
Most people don't start off with abusive behavior. So when it starts the person who is being abused remembers the good times and think that they can get back to par when the relationship was good.
The more abuse one suffers the more a person thinks they need to get the abuser back to the original level as they take the blame for what the other prson is doing.
draconis