Re: When it's Death and Not Divorce...
I feel like death is actually more natural. Death is something that everyone will face, and if a spouse passes away, the two part on good terms and no memories are tarnished.
When someone divorces, especially after several years, it's a very strange feeling. All at once, this person that you created a life bond with, made love to, and had children with, no longer wants you. It's the twilight zone.