Originally Posted by BigToe
If it isn't an affair then she's "emotionally checking" out of the marriage. Her behavior is not what I would classify as "usual". Most women would love the attention of their husbands.
Yes, and no.
I can say from my past experience that sometimes when men get "needy" and want to talk about what is wrong or whine about needing affection, etc, it is not sexy and it can be a turn off.
I am not saying the OP is whiney or needy..but the wife could be looking at it that way.
I can't really talk much about relationships (lollll mine is a mess) however, I do know that when my husband wants me, he just takes me (in a playful way). No talking needed and it feels great
I haven't cheated since the first time on someone (11 years ago)...but I have shown these "signs" without cheating in later relationships because I just didn't like how sissified my man was becoming.