hurtandsad

Thank you. The problem with that is he's the administrator on the computer and I don't have any of his passwords. I don't have the ability to install anything or change anything. I carry guilt about all this as I am a contributing factor, but betrayal of trust led to invasion of privacy. I am certain that he still does things & have tried to talk to him, but he blames me for changing when in essence I only tried to please him, but couldn't handle what he said he needed. The whole situation is based on his need for "different" things and mine for needing to feel loved and not being made a fool of. This is just an example, but I am sure my photos are out there somewhere and I shudder at the thought. He says I should feel good about it. Our relationship was once wonderful, before the days of internet interaction, and I don't know if we will ever get it back.