Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - Is this acceptable!?! Does it make it any better!?!

howcouldshe · 07-20-2011, 08:56 AM

The fact that he claims he stopped in my eyes does not make it better, the fact that he was able to get to that point is the big issue. There was something missing or that he wanted with her, and maybe it was just a few minutes of fun, but the big question is why did he want that.

He may also claim that he stopped but I can tell you from my own experiance as my wife had an affair, the cheater tends to keep information back........they will share the bare minimuim with you.

I am glad that you got the answers that you think that you need but I would ask what pushed to that point with that woman.

Best of luck

07-20-2011, 08:56 AM	#3 (permalink)
howcouldshe Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 74	Re: Is this acceptable!?! Does it make it any better!?! The fact that he claims he stopped in my eyes does not make it better, the fact that he was able to get to that point is the big issue. There was something missing or that he wanted with her, and maybe it was just a few minutes of fun, but the big question is why did he want that. He may also claim that he stopped but I can tell you from my own experiance as my wife had an affair, the cheater tends to keep information back........they will share the bare minimuim with you. I am glad that you got the answers that you think that you need but I would ask what pushed to that point with that woman. Best of luck