hurtandsad

I am new, but this site has really helped me already. It is much easier to help someone else as it doesn't hurt us to give the advise. I am in a similar situation. I don't have actual proof of an affair, but my husband disrespects me all the time & feels it's ok for him to look at 'sites' and post pics of me on them. There is always flirting on Myspace, too.
He's not really willing to give up this stuff and feels it's his right to look & flirt so long as he doesn't act on any of it.
If you have someone that is really willing to try and doesn't view it as being whipped, then you should Definitely do what your heart tells you. If you know that you will struggle forever with this maybe it would be best to part.
I have read many of the posts and you have given lots of great advise. I wish you the best!