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kajira · 01-16-2008, 04:22 PM

Hurt,
I am sorry that your in the situation you are in. I think in order to move past the "issue" the "issue" needs to be brought out into the open and acknowledged. Sometimes what you do not know can hurt you. I really thought it was over, I was so hurt, however, I think I was more angry than anything. Your husband needs to understand his actions are real to you and how they affect you. If he is not willing to do this, then the decision is yours to make. A relationship takes two, furthermore, I try to remember why I got married in the first place. Some days are better than others, nevertheless, I am trying only to look at today, not yesterday.

01-16-2008, 04:22 PM	#4 (permalink)
kajira Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Heartland Posts: 149	Re: Trying to Work it Out Hurt, I am sorry that your in the situation you are in. I think in order to move past the "issue" the "issue" needs to be brought out into the open and acknowledged. Sometimes what you do not know can hurt you. I really thought it was over, I was so hurt, however, I think I was more angry than anything. Your husband needs to understand his actions are real to you and how they affect you. If he is not willing to do this, then the decision is yours to make. A relationship takes two, furthermore, I try to remember why I got married in the first place. Some days are better than others, nevertheless, I am trying only to look at today, not yesterday.