kajira

First and foremost you need to protect yourself, daughter and unborn child. From the sounds of things your health, mental health and example your showing your daughter is not good. Perhpas, leaving will be a wake up call for him. As far as the military goes, I think if you take your marriage license you can go to the base without him. There should be someone you can call and find out. You must have doctor's care it is vital. Furthermore, there are other millitary benefits you may be missing out on. Do not let him bring you down. Pull yourself up and take care of what needs to be taken care of. You have the support of your family, which many do not. Take a moment and look at the big picture....we are here if you need us.