Re: Please help! I'm a new user to Forum
Just like with Alcohol, pornography is an addiction and if the addiction is not resolved it will interfere with your sex life as you are no doubt experiencing now.
Here's a radical suggestion. Why not watch the pornography with him? That way you can strike up a natural conversation about what he likes and dislikes? At the same time you can share with him what you like and dislike.
After watching a few with him you now have something in common to talk about and hence you have created a channel to start talking about your sex lives.
My fear for you is that he may not be enjoying sex with you and he's using the excuse of pornography as a way of finding emotional and physical relief.
I agree with the other comments posted earlier that communication is key and you will have to find out why you haven't has sex for so long.
Please consider my radical suggestion to get the conversation going.
Best of luck.
Cheers
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