Originally Posted by KathyGriffinFan
I can't quite remember, but, was he giving you money? Has he continued to give you money? I seem to recall that he stopped direct depositing his paycheck into your joint account and said he needed to get caught up in his bills before he could give you a few hundred a month. Perhaps I'm mistaken.
I don't think that their responses indicate that they fail to see how you've progressed. It's simply that we all want to see you get the best out this crappy situation.
Exactly! Remember he doesn't have the money to file contested either. If you 'bluff' by being cool, he thinks you begged borrowed or stole money to go ahead regardless. He wants this so he can carry forward with his idiot probably more than you want it to be free. He has a deadline - let HIM come to you regardless. If you approach him, you're too eager. Too eager loses your strength in your position. If 'contested' can you represent yourself? In cases like child support and splitting debt and assets, it's not like there's a lot of ways to go other than table amount for support and 50/50 for assets. Precident has been set for custody and doesn't sound like he's concerned about that anymore. I know you've come for - for God's sake - play it cool!
You waited out the 3 months it took this idiot lawyer to finally get to you, what's another few weeks. Posted via Mobile Device