Originally Posted by Jellybeans
LOL. There are so many OW who are bunny boilers. Much more so than OM.
Haha. Grays, your example is the perfect way to showcase how they alwys say the wife/husband is nuts/crazy/psycho/she's not well/unstable/nuts.
And it just goes to show over and over again: no person involved in an affair ever sings praises about the betrayed spouse to the affair partner.
OP, I hope you see the irony of your thread title---"they have kids" -- Um, so do you.
It usually goes like this:
OM Will Usually Say This About Their Wives:
1. She's batsh!t crazy, who knows what she'll do. We're getting divorced.
2. She doesn't care, she has her own boyfriend and we're getting divorced soon.
3. She doesn't care. We're in a loveless, sexless marriage. We're getting divorced.
OW Will Usually Say This About Their Husbands:
1. He's emotionally and/or physically abusive. Help me. I want to get divorced.
2. He doesn't care, we're in a loveless, sexless marriage. We're getting divorced.
3. He doesn't care, he's screwing around, and we're getting divorced.