Originally Posted by blind

I agree I need a different way to communicate with her. I will be giving this much thought. I don't really know if we are sexually active or not. We had sex last week, but she was very distant. I think she wanted to get into it, but she just wasn't able to. On this note, while speaking to my mother today, she asked me how our sex life was. Isn't that awkward! I think our sex life has been very good at times. But, the last few times haven't been the same.

I'll keep trying to hang in there. I do appreciate the comments. I really need perspective from those that don't just tell me what I want to hear. I also think it is nice to hear from each of you because you don't know me. This way friendship doesn't color the responses I get.

Thanks.