| | Re: Is this low self-esteem?
There is a big difference between being happy as a homebody and not having an interest in much. Like 827Aug mentioned, maybe you have low-level depression.
You also say that most women won't like a laid back guy. That is pretty negative thinking. Women like men who are kind and confident and who are comfortable in their own skin. Sometimes the guys who make the most noise are the most insecure of all.