| | Re: sexless marriage
Tell your husband that how he treats you is negatively impacting your attraction to him. Give him specific examples.
Since marriage is a dynamic between two people, you both have a role to play in improving the marriage. It is definitely possible to create more passion in your marriage.
Go see a marriage counselor (look for a psychologist) who can help you both figure out ways to treat each other better. It can really make all the difference.
When there is resentment (from unmet needs, destructive fighting, etc.) it is hard to have a good sex life or passion.