Re: She doesn't trust me
Thought I had a good day today. Tried to shower my son with attention. Tried to take care of a couple of things that my wife needed done. Played and laughed a lot with the little tike. There was one incident after supper tonight, when my son had my boots on (looked adorable) and was trying to fit his feet into a space that they normally fit but wouldn't with my size 11 boots on. He started getting cranky, and was asking me to help him. I was sitting there watching this develop, trying to decide the best course of action; do I tell him he has to take my boots off? Do I try to help him ( I was actually concerned if he did fit his feet into this space he might twist his knee or something)? Do I try to distract him? I was trying to decide what to do for maybe 5 or 6 seconds, when she starts yelling at me that I'm ignoring him and damaging his emotions. After he went to bed, she told me that was proof that I didn't care about him. Said if I really wanted her and him to stay, she wanted to see some proof that I'm fighting for our marriage. Said I was apathetic and ignoring him on purpose.
Am I really that bad a father?
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