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southerngirl210 · 07-31-2011, 01:46 PM

No, things haven't always been this way. Things were really good in the beginning. He went out of his way to make me feel special and wanted and all of those things. After his dad killed himself things got worse. Anytime we'd fight, he'd threaten to kill himself. Talked down to me. Called me names, etc. I just built up a wall of anger and resentment towards him. We have sought out counseling and it helped us in realizing our own problems as individuals and he has made steps to change how he acts and treats me. I'm having a hard time of letting go of the past. I know in order for us to get through this, I'm going to have to. But I'm not one of those people that can separate sex and emotion. I have to feel some type of emotion to want it.

07-31-2011, 01:46 PM	#8 (permalink)
southerngirl210 Registered User Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: TN Posts: 7	Re: sexless marriage No, things haven't always been this way. Things were really good in the beginning. He went out of his way to make me feel special and wanted and all of those things. After his dad killed himself things got worse. Anytime we'd fight, he'd threaten to kill himself. Talked down to me. Called me names, etc. I just built up a wall of anger and resentment towards him. We have sought out counseling and it helped us in realizing our own problems as individuals and he has made steps to change how he acts and treats me. I'm having a hard time of letting go of the past. I know in order for us to get through this, I'm going to have to. But I'm not one of those people that can separate sex and emotion. I have to feel some type of emotion to want it.