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Originally Posted by VONSTER
is seperation bad? My wife of three years has asked me to move out for a short period but Im scared what she really means is its over. I have trust issues with her mainly because she has mentioned to me that she rushed into our marriage and yesterday I found out she is looking for homes in another state and saying she will be there in May. But she has agreed to go to counseling during our seperation but the thing is she cant tell me she loves me either
Im a very insecure and negative person and Im driving her away with the need for constance reassurance I know this is all my fault. Im very anxious and depressed. Does anyone have any advice or hope?
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To tell you the truth it sounds like things are heading for a divorce. This is my advice to you, however, Start to work on yourself. If you are out of shape hit the gym, or find some hobby. The thing is if you invest time in yourself you will be less negative and better able to handle things if they go badly.
I think to suggest more you'd need to give more information unless nothing has changed in some time.
Someone to chat with and advice PLEASE
draconis