Originally Posted by draconis

Well insecure, negative, need for constance reassurance, anxious ,depressed, trust issues and controlling these are all things you said of yourself and do not cry out as the perfect man for marriage.

I would say though that not everything is hopeless. But it is very easy to be self defeating.

I guess it depends on what you are truly willing to do to fix yourself. You can't promise her anything if you can't do it.

If you want advice I will give it to you and it may help save your marriage. However, advice is only as good as the person is willing to use it.

draconis