Originally Posted by Peace2000
When I play hard to get...like last night..he thinks it's me being mad at him and he starts trying to make a move..I don't want to turn him down because I don't want to hurt his feelings. But that's not when I want to have sex with him. That's like pitty sex..I dont want that!. Do I still turn him down even if it hurts his feelings? He hurts mine all the time.
If he thinks your mad when your playing hard to get then maybe your body language is off.
when he makes his move try saying something like a foot rub and a nice back rub would probley get me in the mood quite nicely.
or what ever you in the mood for.
if he rolls his eye or balks like its too much effort then casually turn him down. you could say I can see your not really into caring about making love to me or what I desire so I think I'll pass and just read or watch TV.
and then hold your ground don't initate until he dose. and when he dose be alittle selfish don't be so eager to please. If he just tries to do the wham bam thankyou mam then stop him and say I need A little more effort on your part on the things I like or I'd rather masterbate. don't say it with an attitude say it from your heart because its true.
some people are just selfish this way and if he dosn't come around then you have to make a choice is this a deal breaker or not.