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Undertheradar · 08-04-2011, 12:46 PM

FWIW.... I haven't even gotten a card from my wife in at least 5 years, never mind a gift from the heart.

Ice in the veins.

Worst part, is that it FORCES ME to do the same.

Now, if the subject comes up, it's laughed off as " haha, we stopped exchanging years ago".

Believe me, it bothers me.

I haven't gotten a Christmas, Father's day, or birthday anything in years.

According to her, that's only for people that are still in the honeymoon stages of their relationship.

Monday is my birthday.
This is the first year that we're working on our marriage. Prior years were considered normal years. This year was a bad one, and we came very close to splitting up.
If there ever was a time to put her best foot forward, it's this Monday.
I guess i'll find out what she's feeling soon enough.

08-04-2011, 12:46 PM	#11 (permalink)
Undertheradar Member Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 348	Re: He gave me WHAT for my b'day FWIW.... I haven't even gotten a card from my wife in at least 5 years, never mind a gift from the heart. Ice in the veins. Worst part, is that it FORCES ME to do the same. Now, if the subject comes up, it's laughed off as " haha, we stopped exchanging years ago". Believe me, it bothers me. I haven't gotten a Christmas, Father's day, or birthday anything in years. According to her, that's only for people that are still in the honeymoon stages of their relationship. Monday is my birthday. This is the first year that we're working on our marriage. Prior years were considered normal years. This year was a bad one, and we came very close to splitting up. If there ever was a time to put her best foot forward, it's this Monday. I guess i'll find out what she's feeling soon enough.