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Originally Posted by draconis
Have you not understood that you are your own undoing? Unlike many other things and people, you do not have time for a learning curve. It is now or never and you are on a crash course.
Unless it is that important there wasn't much reason to contact her to begin with. All you are doing in her eyes is re-enforcing the image that you are STILL controlling.
You do not have the options for making mistakes. You'll have to learn more self control tech.
draconis
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I guess thats my problem I look it at as being a good husband she sees at it being controlling. Thats my problem so you recommend under no circumstances contact her? Communicate on her terms? How does one keep the doors of communication open that way? Last question - should I move out? I really dont want to seperate or does she view that as controlling too?