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Old 08-04-2011, 02:47 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Default Re: Distressed

Try;

Voice activated recorder planted in her car. Catch her saying "I love you"

GPS also in her car.Catch her in the lies with regards to her were about. Then you can call her on were she was, or even find out exactly were she was.

I'm thinking she has mentally checked out of the marital home *becuase* there is OM.

I can see 8- point if you can no longer handle the spy game, then confront and take your chances with a weak and noneffective confrontation.

But do not beg for your marriage when you do confront. Let her know you no longer want to be marriaed to a women that has all the red flags of a cheating spouse.

At least with a location from the GPS and a VAR you can at least ask her some specific and informative questions. With a small chance that she thinks she is really busted and admitts.

Hire a PI, or have someone you trust and she doesn't know follow her.

I just think a confrontation would be more effective if you had a place or name, or at least catcher in a lie with regards to her were about, especially if she is truelly is not at work. Again give the GPS a shot!
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