| | Re: Distressed
Believe me - not knowing and guessing that she is cheating is way worse than feeling a little icky from snooping and finding out the absolute truth.
You need some hard evidence, once you get it = present it. Do not present your sources. She will try to make you into the bad guy. Dont listen. You did not cause her to cheat. She did. Find out the truth, and hit her in the face with it. (figuratively, of course)