Originally Posted by AFEH
Yes. She should forgive her abusers their abuse. It really is the best way forward.
Um, I can't tell if you're serious or tongue in cheek. fwiw, she adores her mom, she worshipped her dad, she never moved away from home except for college, her every day is wrapped up in caring for her 90-year-old mom, so it has never even occurred to her to be upset with her mom. It's I who have a problem with their situation.