| | Re: Ladies opinion...is this poor taste?
Who really is this Lynn who automatically ASSUMES She is the one for you - I agree with all that Jellybeans just said above.
She is not understanding or taking into account your wishes, desires and what YOU want, she is a bit HIGH and assuming on herself, which would alone, be quite UNattractive. Obviously you are her fantasy, but she needs more humility in dealing with anothers wants .
You owe her no explanations at all, but that doesn't mean you have to ignore her, just speak the truth. You are just living your life, you never made any commitments to this woman -nor broke them. We can not control what others "expect" from us .
You have been kind in declining, not leading her on in any way, MOST get the hint, she refusesd, this falls at her feet, she has just refused to see it coming.
She has a broken heart, but she needs to know, better you met someone else so she can "move on" throw this idea into the ocean. You can not pick up the peices of something you didn't break. She assumed something she should not have and allowed herself to get broken.