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Old 08-06-2011, 04:27 PM   #1 (permalink)
wild_irish_rose
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Default why is this so hard for me?

My husband and I have been separated for 7 years. We haven't even seen each other in over a year now and he hasn't used his visitation with our son since last Father's Day (2010). I don't understand why he hasn't filed for divorce (pretty sure he's living with another woman) and I don't understand why I can't bring MYSELF to file for divorce....

We originally separated because of reasons beyond our control. But when those reasons no longer existed, he made it clear to me he wasn't interested in our living together again. But it's like we're in some kind of crazy stalemate each of us waiting for the other to file the paperwork.

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