katc

Hubby knows how I feel - God knows I have told him a gazillion times over the past 3 years.

Lon I have lots invested in this house - my original investment (he did not put any money down) I'm not about to walk away from what would be financial stability for me as a single woman. How is it fair that he should get half of what I put down on this house?

I'm a tough nut, I can stick out just about anything.

I'm certain it's not just him with issues, I'm sure there are things I do that bug him. What I do know is neither of us is entirely happy. I say we divorce, he says no. I say we sell, he says he won't sign.

It will likely remain this way until one of us dies.

I came here to try to understand my feelings, to feel that I'm not crazy and that others too experience this, and I have found just that.

Until hubby and I can resolve the financial end of things, in all likelihood this will continue. It just can't be any other way but to continue to live separately under the same roof ... for now.