Lon

Montana, sorry to hear about your situation... personally, knowing what I know now about my own marriage and dealing with the thoughts of the OM (plural), it is hard enough without having to think about having to raise some other dudes offspring. Like the guy I'm not in favor of abortion but there is the other option of adoption. If she wanted to keep the baby I'd be long gone, not my problem (she broke her marital vows so their is no moral or ethical requirement for you to reconcile or take this on). If you don't already have kids I'd also bolt, its not worth the knowledge of her being with OM when you are deployed (past and future).

If its just advice on how to get the imagery out of your mind I'm sorry I don't have an answer yet, maybe time will help, maybe electroshock therapy ?? Wishing you a good recovery from this whatever course of action you take...