Originally Posted by Atholk

She accidentally went somewhere with men and booze when she was ovulating.
She accidentally got drunk.
She accidentally had sex.
She accidentally didn't use protection.
She accidentally didn't use the morning after pill.

There's no way you can ever be comfortable being deployed again leaving her home alone.

Right now you are on the hook for 18 years of child support unless you start the process of dealing with that legally immediately.

I'm so sorry.