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Rick · 01-22-2008, 03:56 PM

Hello everyone new to the site and looking for some help to try to get my wife back. My wife left me two weeks ago and moved in with her mother. We were having some issues with money spending and communications with each other. Really it is way more my fault I didn’t here her when she was try to explain to me about money. We both have good jobs and my thinking was live for today not tomorrow and she wanted to save. I wasn’t hearing what she was trying to say, what if one of us would lose are jobs or one would get hurt. I got way to comfortable in the marriage and forgot how to communicate with her. This has been going on for about a year she said. We will be married 8 years on 03-09-08 and she will be 37 in July me I will be 42 in February
I love my wife more then anything and am willing to try to change the things that hurt her. We did everything together and I want to try to get that back.
I am not perfect but never cheated of ever raised a hand to her, it is communications and acceptance to changes and really just hearing her when she talks to me.

01-22-2008, 03:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
Rick Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 12	My wife left me help Hello everyone new to the site and looking for some help to try to get my wife back. My wife left me two weeks ago and moved in with her mother. We were having some issues with money spending and communications with each other. Really it is way more my fault I didn’t here her when she was try to explain to me about money. We both have good jobs and my thinking was live for today not tomorrow and she wanted to save. I wasn’t hearing what she was trying to say, what if one of us would lose are jobs or one would get hurt. I got way to comfortable in the marriage and forgot how to communicate with her. This has been going on for about a year she said. We will be married 8 years on 03-09-08 and she will be 37 in July me I will be 42 in February I love my wife more then anything and am willing to try to change the things that hurt her. We did everything together and I want to try to get that back. I am not perfect but never cheated of ever raised a hand to her, it is communications and acceptance to changes and really just hearing her when she talks to me.