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revitalizedhusband · 02-09-2009, 09:28 AM

My wife had 3 c-sections and had to have an open gall bladder removal surgery.

So she has about a 10-12 inch scar from jus under her right breast all the way just past her sternum along with her lower belly c-section scar.

Her stomach is also very full of stretch marks from our first son (he was BIG).

They all bother her, but to be 100% honest they don't bother me at all. How in the WORLD could I let them bother me when they were the reason for my 3 beautiful boys. Even the gall bladder was brought on from the last child (her gall bladder started shooting out stones while she was pregnant).

So no, assuming your husband loves you and your kids, he's not lying, I look at them as "battle scars" also, she went into "battle" for our family and came out with those. I actually will gently rub them at times to let her know they don't bother me at all.

Just like the poster above, she has a smoking body but won't wear a bikini due to her gall bladder scar. She would wear one if she just had the c-section since they were 'bikini cuts', but the gall bladder one she is really self conscience about.

02-09-2009, 09:28 AM	#6 (permalink)
revitalizedhusband Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 700	Re: men, have body questions My wife had 3 c-sections and had to have an open gall bladder removal surgery. So she has about a 10-12 inch scar from jus under her right breast all the way just past her sternum along with her lower belly c-section scar. Her stomach is also very full of stretch marks from our first son (he was BIG). They all bother her, but to be 100% honest they don't bother me at all. How in the WORLD could I let them bother me when they were the reason for my 3 beautiful boys. Even the gall bladder was brought on from the last child (her gall bladder started shooting out stones while she was pregnant). So no, assuming your husband loves you and your kids, he's not lying, I look at them as "battle scars" also, she went into "battle" for our family and came out with those. I actually will gently rub them at times to let her know they don't bother me at all. Just like the poster above, she has a smoking body but won't wear a bikini due to her gall bladder scar. She would wear one if she just had the c-section since they were 'bikini cuts', but the gall bladder one she is really self conscience about.