Hi TheWife,
Firstly hats off to you for making an effort to bring back some spark in the relationship.
It's hard enough raising one child let alone twins so please dont be too hard on yourself.
I think all reasonable men (including your hubby of course) will know they feel neglected but will be happy to take a back seat to the most precious gifts you've got.
As you are no doubt discovering having some intimate time with the hubby is now about military type planning as you need to work around the babies timetable.
If you both can be open about the situation then plan ahead and have your romantic session when the babies are a sleep.
I certainly remember the days when we had to plan around our baby's sleeping times and during those couple of hours it was the best sessions because we both had a goal of making it our quality time.
Best of luck.
Cheers
