Originally Posted by Walter3
Entropy, you imply that all men can have any woman they want, anytime............if you really believe this, you are just a tad bit full of yourself, as in, "God's gift to Women"............you also mention the wife thinking of her "boring/responsible" husband at home, as if boring and responsible are synonymous, they aren't............and if you think you are thought of as "boring" by your wife, then that's YOUR fault..................after reading your comments on this thread though, I think you are the very kind of guy that other guys have to work very hard at proving we aren't all like.
I imply no such thing. In fact my example was the opposite. That an average woman would draw a croud and a man would not.
I am saying that in the right environment a woman is exhibiting risky behavior by drinking heavily, flirting and dancing with other men. If you read these threads you will see time and again the Nice Guy sitting home. The wife out having some fun because she loves him but is not in love with him.
I am saying that risky behavior can be unfaithful in itself.
A woman going to Kroger is not the same as a women dressing up to go out, drink, flirt and dance with other men who are there to bed someone. Are we saying there is no difference folks?
I am saying that any given woman in that scenario has increased her posibility of being gamed from about zero to something greater than zero. The more she goes and puts herself out there the more chance of failure. Maybe it only increases the chances by double.