draconis

I know a girl that is much like your boyfriend. So I will give you a bit of insight here.

1) He wants his cake and something he can fall back on, at first the other girl was the fall back now you are the fall back. Chances are since he pulled it off he will always be like this.

2) He is selfish and has put himself ahead of you.

3) Not only did he cheat but has manipulated you and her at the same time while lying about the whole thing.

You deserve to have better and there are men out there that will treat you well. Give yourself as much time as you need and work on yourself. The money you save from going out can be used for a gym or new clothes for now.

Most of all cut him out of your life so you CAN heal.

draconis