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COGypsy · 08-15-2011, 10:46 PM

Maybe that self-reflection is a road you want to go down in your IC... It seems to me that you and your wife have a pretty well established cycle of "fighting and fvcking". Sex is the band aid or the distraction for everything. Should she actually participate in therapy and work on resolving her issues, that dynamic is going to change dramatically and you're going to have to adapt to a lot less drama too. Either way, I really hope you guys get this stuff resolved before your daughter gets old enough to think that relationships are supposed to be like yours is....

08-15-2011, 10:46 PM	#19 (permalink)
COGypsy Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Posts: 1,328	Re: Patterns of attraction... Maybe that self-reflection is a road you want to go down in your IC... It seems to me that you and your wife have a pretty well established cycle of "fighting and fvcking". Sex is the band aid or the distraction for everything. Should she actually participate in therapy and work on resolving her issues, that dynamic is going to change dramatically and you're going to have to adapt to a lot less drama too. Either way, I really hope you guys get this stuff resolved before your daughter gets old enough to think that relationships are supposed to be like yours is....