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I agree with the previous responses, and the thing is : actions speak louder than words. He can tell you all he wants about loving you/wanting you back but then his actions are telling you the real story. For whatever reason, he is acting incredibly mean and selfish. I know you love/d him and that this must be so difficult, but probably at this point things are NOT going to be the same/go back to the way they were. They CAN however go one of two ways - you find a NEW way to move on in your relationship, or you separate because he has damaged the relationship and is not taking steps to repair it. EITHER WAY you need to put the focus on YOU. Put yourself first and remove yourself from this painful wierd drama. Its not doing you any good to stick around for it. You are better than that, and its just going to bring you down. And sadly, for alot of people they just don't "get it" until its gone - he may continue acting this way as long as he thinks he's still got you in some capacity. He has to know that you will not tolerate this behavior, and you have to tell yourself/know that first. Respect yourself and move on and heal yourself for now.