Originally Posted by this is bad
As much as I want to believe her, I can't. She should be able to get the address from him by calling him directly. She's not willing because of the shame. That part is killing her. I can only offer, write the letter or D. Your choice. She just doesn't want to send the letter. Her sister also asked what that is going to accomplish.
She should not be contacting him at all dude. NC.