Re: How to get over being cheated on? Very long
Hi Cuddly,
Writing to you as a fellow Aussie national is quite a treat in these international forums.
I think the two previous posts have hinted that you may be a tad too early to start another relationship as you need some time to heal and get over the very unhealthy relationship you just had.
My suggestion is, if you can hang on and wait before starting a relationship then do so. You really need to have some time for yourself to reflect, maybe forgive but most importantly try and forget and move forward.
But given that you have started the relationship I would suggest that you ask your partner to be very patient and understanding, again, given your previous relationship.
You will have to explain why you are so jumpy and cautious and that it's got nothing to do with him but is an issue for you to resolve "internally".
By talking about it and coming to these forums is the best way to relieve the pain so you've done the right thing to start this post.
Being a little nervous about men and relationships is just a natural way to heal your wounds. Continue to win the emotional battle especially for your baby who really needs you now more than ever.
Finally, not all blokes in this world are "bastards" so please remain positive as you are still very young and have so much to achieve for you and your baby.
Best of luck.
Cheers
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