Originally Posted by this is bad
Lastly, W tell me she cannot force any that doesn't want to be with her to be with her. It got tense...
I hope I am wrong, but the way I read this sentence is she wants to be with him, but can't force him to be with her.
After my wife's EA ended, she gave me everything he had sent her including a first run comic book. I even requested that she give me a page out of an old scrapbook that had a picture of him from high school, he wasn't the only person on the page. She tried to say that that picture was irrelevant to the EA and so was the comic, but I told her she could keep absolutely nothing related to him if she wanted to stay. She needs to get rid of it all.