Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - On the path to Reconciliation and along came a speed bump!

chuckwood · 08-22-2011, 06:06 PM

Sorry to hear about your difficulties. Sex can become an obsession that can easily damage a relationship. Making assumptions and needing to "know" is also very damaging. She did tell you about what happened so that shows that she cares and is being honest with you. She may not have done it right away because she was afraid to hurt you. That doesn't make her dishonest, it shows that she loves you enough to want to protect you. If there is true love between you, what she did with someone else a couple of nights of her life should not affect how you feel about her. Trust her completely and you will be able to have a happy marriage going forward. Doubt her, and you are setting yourself up for more pain down the road. May you life be filled with love.

08-22-2011, 06:06 PM	#2 (permalink)
chuckwood Registered User Join Date: Aug 2011 Posts: 4	Re: On the path to Reconciliation and along came a speed bump! Sorry to hear about your difficulties. Sex can become an obsession that can easily damage a relationship. Making assumptions and needing to "know" is also very damaging. She did tell you about what happened so that shows that she cares and is being honest with you. She may not have done it right away because she was afraid to hurt you. That doesn't make her dishonest, it shows that she loves you enough to want to protect you. If there is true love between you, what she did with someone else a couple of nights of her life should not affect how you feel about her. Trust her completely and you will be able to have a happy marriage going forward. Doubt her, and you are setting yourself up for more pain down the road. May you life be filled with love.