Originally Posted by jnj express
You could send him an E-Mail, as if it was from an unknown source, say in the E-Mail---you know he is cheating, and if he doesn't stop instantly----everyone, and I mean everyone he knows will be told of his cheating----that may get him to stop
It won't help your mother---but what is it that you really want to do about all of this?????
Thank you for your suggestion. That is a very creative idea, and could maybe work if my dad did not share an email address with my mom.
I would like to report that this is going to be handled very soon, maybe this week. I am gathering up my courage and am planning a meeting. I tried to contact my brother for some support however it does not seem likely he will respond. I am thinking he might already know as well. He helped my dad with some technical problems with his cell. Dad is very trusting to just carelessly let his phone get handled by us.
You asked what I hope the outcome might be? There are no good outcomes. The only outcome for me is that dad and I will not have this secret between us. It will be up to him what he decides to do next. I am not trying to break up the marriage by any means. If it was just an affair with one person it would be different. An escort/ prostitute service brings this to another level of risk.