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MrsLV · 01-27-2008, 07:42 PM

elationship Logistics

___x___ We communicate well.
___x___ We resolve conflict well.
______ We have discussed and are okay with our relationship roles.
______ We have discussed and are okay with our sexual expectations.
______ We have discussed and are okay with our spiritual beliefs.
______ We have discussed and are okay with our financial management.
__x____ We have discussed and are okay with our personal, couple and family goals.

Relationship Balance

__x____ We value each others needs for some independence within the relationship.
__x____ We spend adequate time together, nurturing our relationship.

Relationship Emotional Safety

__x____ We feel heard by each other.
__x____ We feel understood by each other.
__x____ We feel validated by each other.
______ We feel empathy from each other.
__x____ We feel respected by each other.
__x____ We feel loved by each other.

01-27-2008, 07:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
MrsLV Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Georgia Posts: 57	Re: Couples Quick Assessment Checklist: How Strong is Your Relationship Foundation? elationship Logistics ___x___ We communicate well. ___x___ We resolve conflict well. ______ We have discussed and are okay with our relationship roles. ______ We have discussed and are okay with our sexual expectations. ______ We have discussed and are okay with our spiritual beliefs. ______ We have discussed and are okay with our financial management. __x____ We have discussed and are okay with our personal, couple and family goals. Relationship Balance __x____ We value each others needs for some independence within the relationship. __x____ We spend adequate time together, nurturing our relationship. Relationship Emotional Safety __x____ We feel heard by each other. __x____ We feel understood by each other. __x____ We feel validated by each other. ______ We feel empathy from each other. __x____ We feel respected by each other. __x____ We feel loved by each other. __________________ Seek God BEFORE "all else fails", not WHEN "all else fails".