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LoLo · 01-28-2008, 01:22 AM

Hi MrsLV,
Sorry I don't have advise but a question on your feelings. I'm in the same situation except I'm the one who checks the account. My longterm boyfriend and I share a bank account that was orginally mine. I have online access and I use to constantly ask him what he bought here, if I saw a resturant purchase question who he had lunch with etc. It has started arguements. I still tend to do this sometimes. I'm the one who makes more money and I belive it bothers him inside.
My question is would you rather your husband not question you at all? or if you could would you like to see what he spends the money on?

01-28-2008, 01:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
LoLo Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 5	Re: sharing funds Hi MrsLV, Sorry I don't have advise but a question on your feelings. I'm in the same situation except I'm the one who checks the account. My longterm boyfriend and I share a bank account that was orginally mine. I have online access and I use to constantly ask him what he bought here, if I saw a resturant purchase question who he had lunch with etc. It has started arguements. I still tend to do this sometimes. I'm the one who makes more money and I belive it bothers him inside. My question is would you rather your husband not question you at all? or if you could would you like to see what he spends the money on?