My friends don't want to tell me that, It's kind of scarey hearing it.
We've talked again
And now he says to write everything down, b/c he still doesn't understand what he does wrong or what the problem is. He also says to write down my one biggest complaint with him and he will work on that....
OK, kinda sounds like he's trying, but one thing
At that rate it'll be another 5 years before we get to where I'd like to be.
BTW...we still haven't had sex or even made out.
Oh, he kissing me (peck on the lips) before he leaves for work and the one time he tried to kiss me the other day before he brushed his teeth UGH!
I said I want to but with nice breath and he got mad. He does this sort of thing, trying when he knows I won't and then he says I'm the problem.
Anyway, I guess I have some thinking to do....
? should I take it upon myself to make an appointment to talk to someone? he still hasn't
Why do you stay with him A) pity or B) don't want to say that your marriage failed. Either or both are not reasons to stay. You deserve to be happy and he will never make you happy. BOTH