Originally Posted by justean
i think when the timing is right it wil happen.
your issue is more magnified because of those around you and your prob feeling a little left out.
if you have everything good at the moment , look on those as your positive life. as the negative feelings need to be pushed to the back of your head, or it wil interfere with how good you have everything now.
my h now was 30 when we married. i was 27. we were together cohabiting for 5 yrs before we married. i felt like you at times and its because it feels so good, you wonder why marriage isnt your next step asap.
believe me he really loves you. hes enjoying what he has and marriage isnt a thought and its not for the wrong reasons. hes just being him.
there is nothing wrong with you. but you could apply to much pressure to this issue, so be careful.
Hi, didn't see your reply!
The last thing I want is to pressure him so I'm going to try to push the negatives to the back of my head but it's so hard ... am definitely feeling left out as well, nail on head right there.
Can I ask ... were you engaged when he was 30 or actually married?