| | Re: Seemed like a waste of time
Here's another vote for individual counseling. My estranged husband and I went to a couple of sessions together. It was AWFUL. It did more damage than good. My husband refused counseling after that. I found another therapist and went to individual sessions. Although my marriage is over, I have greatly benefited from counseling. Had I gone to this particular counselor years ago, I think things would have ended differently. Sometimes those things we argue, fuss, and fight over are really superficial things. A great counselor working one-on-one can really get to the heart of the problem. Don't be afraid to try several therapist until you find the one that feels right to you.