Delphi

I think you both need a little empathy, to walk in each other's shoes for a while. Of course he felt neglected, I'm sure most new fathers do. But he should also see your position. A baby MUST be the centre of its mother's life if it is to survive and thrive. I think he is being a little self-centred here. As you say, you have so much to lose so hopefully a counselor will be able to get him to see it.