Delphi

Oh, how admirable you are. You can't hear me but I'm applauding you. How strong, intelligent and clear sighted you are. I hope you make a wonderful life for yourself.

But please, don't let compassion for your cheating husband hold you back. What did he think would happen when he cheated? He must have know his world would change forever. Or did he think he would get away with it? You owe him nothing. Your loyalty must go to yourself first. I realize that after so many years of marriage you cannot turn off your feelings for him totally but please don't fall into that old female compassion trap. Good luck.