Hello again, well we started marriage counseling a week after she left. Just last night I got a call from the counselor stating she would not be able to talk to me anymore that my wife wants to be counseled by her self. When we started counseling we started separate and never got the chance to sit down together and talk about everything. Couple things she did tell me was she wanted to settle down more and for us not to run as much as we did. She wanted it to be more just me and her. We have a lot of friends and we were always doing something with other people and not spending quality time together. The other thing is that I’m Italian and some times when I’m trying to get her to give me a hand doing something I raise my voice and she said that just goes through her like a knife. I am a person that if you ask me to do some thing I do it right then at least 95 percent of the time. I always have to ask her at least two or more time to come and help me with something that I might need three hands to do. I drag race a motor cycle and it got to the point she hate the bike, one of the reasons is the money I put into it and the other I think she might be afraid that I’m going to get hurt. I’ve been racing for about 20 years and one of my goal was to go 200 mph and under 7 seconds in the quarter mile. Now she said me trying to change for her is too late. I told her I would quite racing and even sell the bike. Yes I would do that for her and for my self it is dangerous sport and I do not need to get hurt. If you love some one it is never too late to change in my book, but she is holding all the cards. Any suggestions?
